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Old 04-07-2009 | 11:54 AM
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Originally Posted by Dustinss
The focus rs with never hit us soil.
uhhh did you read the link? Ford finally is saying they are looking for feedback if they should bring it over...and the obvious answer is, yes plz.


Gr3y - dude...when you get older and realize woman suck (not literally on your *****, cuz that stops with age and marriage) then we can all bs together about it. But in the mean time, I can give you some advice from my personal experience. Heres the thing with getting into relationships right after you get out of one (or one person does), it wont work properly. Once out of a relationship a person needs time alone to think and collect themselves again. Doing this you grow and further learn more about yourself. People need to be able to be alone before being in a relationship. So jumping into dating her if she does break up will be fucked up times. Of course "love" will be blinding both of you and you may say...oh she isnt like that or she wouldnt do that...but yeah... been there done that. hard as hell to believe but its the truth. Rallyracer and I have been friends since age 2 and both had this happen...Ive had it happen more but he can tell you the same thing. Its fun to be young and date and meet new people but seriously you grow up soooo much in the mid 20's, I cant stand any girls younger than me now and all the girls i dated before I couldnt get along with now because of the changes you go through... Anyway im ranting cuz I think woman are only there to break hearts and cash checks but reality sucks you'll learn when you get older :P For now though man thats hard, I was in the friends zone, sucked *****, her current man will either never find out or get pissed and try to fight you, is your car parked outside? cuz if he is crazy enough he may **** it up. You are pushing over the line of friends to a girl that is currently in a relationship. If she hasnt broken up with him in those 6 months, she probably wont anytime soon unless she does something irrational. sometimes you need to let it go and if it comes back then its yours.....
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That does not mean anything
Old 04-07-2009 | 12:23 PM
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Originally Posted by northvibe
uhhh did you read the link? Ford finally is saying they are looking for feedback if they should bring it over...and the obvious answer is, yes plz.


Gr3y - dude...when you get older and realize woman suck (not literally on your *****, cuz that stops with age and marriage) then we can all bs together about it. But in the mean time, I can give you some advice from my personal experience. Heres the thing with getting into relationships right after you get out of one (or one person does), it wont work properly. Once out of a relationship a person needs time alone to think and collect themselves again. Doing this you grow and further learn more about yourself. People need to be able to be alone before being in a relationship. So jumping into dating her if she does break up will be ------ up times. Of course "love" will be blinding both of you and you may say...oh she isnt like that or she wouldnt do that...but yeah... been there done that. hard as hell to believe but its the truth. Rallyracer and I have been friends since age 2 and both had this happen...Ive had it happen more but he can tell you the same thing. Its fun to be young and date and meet new people but seriously you grow up soooo much in the mid 20's, I cant stand any girls younger than me now and all the girls i dated before I couldnt get along with now because of the changes you go through... Anyway im ranting cuz I think woman are only there to break hearts and cash checks but reality sucks you'll learn when you get older :P For now though man thats hard, I was in the friends zone, sucked *****, her current man will either never find out or get pissed and try to fight you, is your car parked outside? cuz if he is crazy enough he may ---- it up. You are pushing over the line of friends to a girl that is currently in a relationship. If she hasnt broken up with him in those 6 months, she probably wont anytime soon unless she does something irrational. sometimes you need to let it go and if it comes back then its yours.....

Thanks for taking the time to write that bro. Believe me when I say that I know exactly what you mean. For me, I’ve been single since last July when my girlfriend of 4 and a half years left me for one of her ex boyfriends (Which believe me, left me EXTREMELY bitter towards girls and not able to trust them. But this one isn’t like other girls. Trust me). I’ve been enjoying being single and staying away from girls. I guess the thing that I wish is for her to make up her mind, but for the most part, I’ve accepted that her and I aren’t together and I am just fine with her and I remaining friends.

The hard thing is, her and I spent some time together Saturday night and she wouldn’t get out of my car until I answered her question of whether I had feelings for her or not. I finally got her to be able to leave by avoiding the question but all day Sunday and yesterday she kept begging me to tell her so I did. But I also told her that I wouldn’t ever make a move on her because I respect the fact that she’s in a relationship already. Guess I’ve kind of thrown that to the wayside by giving her flowers, but she’s been going through a rough time lately and has been sad, so I tried to cheer her up.

I’m just lost in this situation and totally understand (believe me, I do) that most girls are extremely immature and they’re never sure of what they want. The problem is, after getting close to her as friends, she’s pretty much one of the best people that I know, and she certainly deserves better than what she gets. She’s really awesome, but I think I’m just going to sit back and see what she does. She now knows how I feel, but I think that if I distance myself from her, she will have time to think and decide what she wants.

Agree or disagree?
Old 04-07-2009 | 12:27 PM
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Originally Posted by Dustinss
That does not mean anything
you are a downer and are ruining my hopes and dreams... lol they are going to bring it because Jeff and I are calling Ford today and blackmailing them. There is so much demand for it, I bet they'll bring it.
Old 04-07-2009 | 12:32 PM
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It would be nice because the car does look bad ass and the interior is nice too.
Old 04-07-2009 | 12:38 PM
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Originally Posted by northvibe
you are a downer and are ruining my hopes and dreams... lol they are going to bring it because Jeff and I are calling Ford today and blackmailing them. There is so much demand for it, I bet they'll bring it.
n/m lol
Old 04-07-2009 | 12:42 PM
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Originally Posted by gr3y_f0x_n1nja
Thanks for taking the time to write that bro. Believe me when I say that I know exactly what you mean. For me, I’ve been single since last July when my girlfriend of 4 and a half years left me for one of her ex boyfriends. I’ve been enjoying being single and staying away from girls. I guess the thing that I wish is for her to make up her mind, but for the most part, I’ve accepted that her and I aren’t together and I am just fine with her and I remaining friends.

The hard thing is, her and I spent some time together Saturday night and she wouldn’t get out of my car until I answered her question of whether I had feelings for her or not. I finally got her to be able to leave by avoiding the question but all day Sunday and yesterday she kept begging me to tell her so I did. But I also told her that I wouldn’t ever make a move on her because I respect the fact that she’s in a relationship already. Guess I’ve kind of thrown that to the wayside by giving her flowers, but she’s been going through a rough time lately and has been sad, so I tried to cheer her up.

I’m just lost in this situation and totally understand (believe me, I do) that most girls are extremely immature and they’re never sure of what they want. The problem is, after getting close to her as friends, she’s pretty much one of the best people that I know, and she certainly deserves better than what she gets. She’s really awesome, but I think I’m just going to sit back and she what she does. She now knows how I feel, but I think that if I distance myself from her, she will have time to think and decide what she wants.

Agree or disagree?
Ohhh ohhh good. Ok so I like that you show the respect, how old is she? So to me its like she is finally realizing her current relationship sucks and there is better out there, which is good. Well I am now really set on being completely honest with people as it creates less drama later... So I think you should tell her your honest feelings but you know just dont rush anything. It seems the better relationships that will last are friendships that then turn into relationships as you know each other and know what you are getting into. So maybe tell her your feelings then just see what happens.

Originally Posted by Dustinss
It would be nice because the car does look bad ass and the interior is nice too.
lol im just f'ing with you though dont think i hate you. Yeah I know its a long shot, ford f'd us on the 2003 focus RS with the US only getting the weak ass SVT. I really hope though that it comes and ford asking enthusiasts is a step in the right direction...I mean the whole world wants this thing...its pwnage.

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Old 04-07-2009 | 12:44 PM
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jesus christ. This thread is like an episode of the wonder years..
Old 04-07-2009 | 12:52 PM
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Originally Posted by northvibe
Ohhh ohhh good. Ok so I like that you show the respect, how old is she? So to me its like she is finally realizing her current relationship sucks and there is better out there, which is good. Well I am now really set on being completely honest with people as it creates less drama later... So I think you should tell her your honest feelings but you know just dont rush anything. It seems the better relationships that will last are friendships that then turn into relationships as you know each other and know what you are getting into. So maybe tell her your feelings then just see what happens.
She is actually going to be 23 next month. I turn 23 in July so she is a couple months older than me. She's been dating this guy for 6 and a half years and I think she is finally realizing that what she gets is not what she deserves and maybe she has been with him for so long because she thinks she can’t get any better? I don’t know. They guy seems nice enough, but she claims otherwise, to me anyways. I agree on the honesty thing as well. It was a main reason why my last relationship didn’t work. My ex was a lying and manipulative bitch. Lol

She already knows that I like her, but not much else past that. I don’t think that I want to reveal much more than that, because I don’t want to further complicate things, nor do I want to cause problems in her relationship. I just can’t help the fact but think of what it would be like to be with her, because she’s awesome. I also don’t want to mess up our friendship. I am going to be the Best Man in my friends wedding and she is the Maid of Honor. The last thing I want to do is screw everything up and then have to walk down the aisle with her in the wedding. Talk about awkward. lol

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jesus christ. This thread is like an episode of the wonder years..
So? What's your point?

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Old 04-07-2009 | 01:34 PM
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Your friendship will probably be toast if you date. My neighbor I grew up with my entire life and I ended up dating. She finally got confidence which is the one thing I hated about her when we were young. We dated, discussion on how I'm not relgious came up , and we immediately broke up. She knew I'm not religious at all but still dated me. I don't trust her at all after that. We're still friends but it's a pretty shitty friendship.
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Originally Posted by Cuda009
Your friendship will probably be toast if you date. My neighbor I grew up with my entire life and I ended up dating. She finally got confidence which is the one thing I hated about her when we were young. We dated, discussion on how I'm not relgious came up , and we immediately broke up. She knew I'm not religious at all but still dated me. I don't trust her at all after that. We're still friends but it's a pretty shitty friendship.
ouch...yeah politics and religion are HUGE in long term relationships...but dude he is young. Here is what a friend told me:
Your young dude, go practice while you can. And so I am a man *****...... seriously the more you date the more you find out more about yourself and what you want in a partner. Dating more is better even if relationships end bad or good. its all about learning.

http://gymkhana.dcshoes.com/#/videos/
ken blocks video site

dude plato holds the slide and still wins 1st place, (he drives a chevy)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gPCGn...layer_embedded
The guy that bumped him....just like a stereotypical bmw driver

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Old 04-07-2009 | 03:20 PM
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Originally Posted by northvibe
ouch...yeah politics and religion are HUGE in long term relationships...but dude he is young. Here is what a friend told me:
Your young dude, go practice while you can. And so I am a man *****...... seriously the more you date the more you find out more about yourself and what you want in a partner. Dating more is better even if relationships end bad or good. its all about learning.
As am I. I told you.... enjoying the single life. Being young has its advantages.
Old 04-07-2009 | 03:22 PM
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Originally Posted by northvibe
dude plato holds the slide and still wins 1st place, (he drives a chevy)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gPCGn...layer_embedded
The guy that bumped him....just like a stereotypical bmw driver
That BMW driver was penalized 4sec for that so the win went to the Chevy
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Originally Posted by gr3y_f0x_n1nja
As am I. I told you.... enjoying the single life. Being young has its advantages.
hellz yeah, im only 25 haivng fun with a 30 yr old though... I totally dig the cougars, older chicks ftw.

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That BMW driver was penalized 4sec for that so the win went to the Chevy
ha ha yeah i wonder if formula d is calling him

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Old 04-07-2009 | 04:59 PM
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We all should talk a little more while in IL about having meets. Just to get a feeler on where we stand. What do you guys think?
Old 04-07-2009 | 05:25 PM
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Originally Posted by northvibe
ouch...yeah politics and religion are HUGE in long term relationships...but dude he is young. Here is what a friend told me:
Your young dude, go practice while you can. And so I am a man *****...... seriously the more you date the more you find out more about yourself and what you want in a partner. Dating more is better even if relationships end bad or good. its all about learning.

http://gymkhana.dcshoes.com/#/videos/
ken blocks video site

dude plato holds the slide and still wins 1st place, (he drives a chevy)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gPCGn...layer_embedded
The guy that bumped him....just like a stereotypical bmw driver
being one of those is fun

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just hit me up when you need help. its not as big of as a hassle as it seems.
you have no idea how much i may take you up on this...


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Old 04-07-2009 | 05:49 PM
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Originally Posted by northvibe
hellz yeah, im only 25 haivng fun with a 30 yr old though... I totally dig the cougars, older chicks ftw.



ha ha yeah i wonder if formula d is calling him
Talk about doing a ****. Now that's FTW. Still remember every detail and that was 3 months ago. lol
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We all should talk a little more while in IL about having meets. Just to get a feeler on where we stand. What do you guys think?
Sounds like a plan.




P, have you checked out this issue yet?

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Old 04-07-2009 | 10:16 PM
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Sounds like a plan.




P, have you checked out this issue yet?
Um I got feb's Ill check barnes and noble tomorrow and buy marches if they have it. I ******* WANT THAT CAR!! ARH!!! Im selling organs next week to raise some money. Unless its your turn to pay the $11 for the mag idk...I need to get that back from you to read it but from flipping threw it it almost seemed worth it.
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Good morning MN peeps. Week is half over!
Old 04-08-2009 | 09:20 AM
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morning!

ohhhhh baby
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**** morning. Two hours of sleep FTW!
Old 04-08-2009 | 09:34 AM
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I hate waking up....
Old 04-08-2009 | 09:38 AM
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---- morning. Two hours of sleep FTW!


Sorry to hear that bro. I don't know if I'd be able to function at work on 2 hours. Eff that.
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